I also love what you said about your approach to your kids toys. I was a tomboy and I had such a hard time when my oldest child who is a girl went full on for girlie culture as a preschooler. I was much more comfortable when my boy went for the same stuff when he hit preschool. I turned out that the intense period was something they went through, and they still both love to dress up, but it’s no longer a focus. I felt the same way when my daughter bought her first lego friends set, and relaxed when my son did the same. I’m coming around to see that as long as they’ve got broad choices, and we promote the idea that they can make their own choices they’re fine.